u/Connect_Cobbler_5080

I (29f) broke off my engagement last night with my fiance (35m). Last night, things were pretty mutual. I was very emotional and so was he. Long story short, I ended things due to never being chosen as a priority and feeling emotionally neglected. This morning i started the day sobbing. I have cried most of today. He has been very soft and comforting which isn’t the norm. He wants to try to work things out but I don’t think it’s possible. It’s messing with my head because I feel like I’m on an emotional roller coaster. I’ll be crying for hours and so sad reconsidering my decision and then I’ll snap back into feeling flat and numb and comfortable like nothing changed in the relationship. Is this normal? We live together too which I think is adding another layer of complexity. I know some red flags led me to feel this way and initiate this decision. But now I’m sad and feeling like I need to change my mind. I do love him but I think my emotions are speaking and not my logic.