My boyfriend [22M] feels like I don't love him when I [19M] want space
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. We attend the same university except I live on-campus. He visits frequently and even stays the night.
We have one week left of the semester and then it's summer break. I have to move away since my childhood home was sold during the semester. This is relevant. Since my boyfriend knew everything, he's been wanting to spend more time together. As in he's staying longer than usual. I want to get coffee? He wants to tag along. I need to study at the library? He'll go with me. I need to shower? He'll ask to join.
I adore the time with my boyfriend but it's becoming too frequently. I ask my boyfriend if he can go home for the night since I would like time alone. He asks why and that since I'm moving away, we should spend as much time together because he might never see me again. I tell him that I will see him during summer, but I just need a break today to study for an exam and relax till then. He proposed we study together but I know we won't and get distracted. He tries other methods, like staying at a friend's dorm till im done OR staying in the living room while im in the bedroom. I tell him no, to please just go. He asks don't I love him? And that I'm clearly bothered by him.
I love my boyfriend, I love that he's trying to make an effort to spend more time together. But it feels unfair how he pushes and then make assumptions when I refuse. I think im a bad girlfriend.
edit: I should have added this information. My boyfriend lives with his dad and older brother. To my knowledge, his dad isn't the greatest and his brother is a loser. His own words. The day we spent today was amazing. We had pizza, went to the park, walked around campus. He paid for everything and was trying to get me in a good mood. I was in a crappy mood and kept getting snappy. I apologized to him when we got back.