u/Connect-Example-7847

Trying to figure out the actual risk here and would really appreciate some level-headed input — we're both anxious.

Timeline:

• She stopped her combination pill on Sunday, April 12
• Her last period started April 17 (which I'm guessing was a withdrawal bleed from stopping the pill)
• Since that period, we've had three occasions of mutual masturbation. My fingers were inside her, and there may have been precum on my hand at the time
• No penetrative sex has happened

Today she told me she thinks she might be pregnant. Her symptoms:

• Stomach cramps unlike any she's had before
• Breast tenderness
• Headaches

I know the chance of pregnancy from fingering is generally considered very low, but I'm pretty freaked out.

Thank you so much for your advice!