I have come to the conclusion that my son’s father(lets call him Juan) is a Narcissist,
I (28F) stay at home mother of 3 ,no income . Clean, cook, bathe children, wash (clothes,dishes), ect. Only thing Juan does for himself when he gets home is shower , shit and eat.
Anytime I ask to go see my family he complains about how long im going to be and why i want to waste gas driving a 3hr round trip. Mind you his bank account has around 30k and he doesnt know that i know.. Anytime i bring my family up he is very dismissive. Its hard keeping up with the house and when i ask for help to just wash his own clothes or to even take out the trash , he says he doesn’t have time and he had a long day at work . ( works in the union as a demo foreman ). my first child (8F),not his child, went into a inpatient program for a week and a half and he didnt ask me once how she was . It is to the point where i want out and 75% of the day i feel sick just thinking about him . I want out but I live in a city with no family and i dont want to move my daughter with her being in therapy. & i dont want to live for from my sons . Am i over thinking or is this honest what the sahm honestly is and i just need to shut my mouth and deal with. ?