u/Confident_Frosting85

My partner and I have been together for 6 years and we are having a lot of issues with communication- or the lack there of- and commitment. My partner has expressed time & time again that he feels unsupported, not prioritized, unwanted, and that I put everything (family friends, and work) before them in our relationship because I can’t communicate my burnout, show more effort in him & his interest, & lots of other areas where he feels I’m neglecting him and not fully committing myself to the relationship. There’s unfortunately a lot of resentment I think that has build up over time that makes this difficult & I’m very lost on how to move forward. My partner just doesn’t want to be hurt anymore, and I just want us to make up and move on. I’ve asked him about ways that I can change or what efforts I can make to establish change but I feel like the small efforts I have made (like implementing more quality time and expressing when I’m feeling too tired haven’t helped the situation and just make it worse. Overall he’s feeling a lot of neglect and I just don’t want him to feel that way anymore. What is there next to do?

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u/Confident_Frosting85 — 17 days ago