My (M35) husband (M38) asked me to participate in scan play with him. I am torn. I don't know what to do. What do you suggest?
The title should read "Scat". Sorry I am a bit tipsy due to the stress.
I met my husband about 5 years ago married about almost two years ago. I am very kink friendly as long as its consenting adults. But he never showed me this side of him. I feel blind sided. He said he's been into scat play all his adult dating life. Basically someone defecating on him.
About 5 years ago when he entered my life, I though I hit the jacktop. Tall easy on the eyes, muscular, with a VERY healthy net worth. He definately upgraded my life, paid off home, luxury vacations, yatch lifestyles. He offered to even not work anymore, but I declined and kept my career.
He's been bringing up piss play for about two months. I gave in and basically did yellow showers on him. I didn't touch or hug him after and made him take shower. But now he flat out asked me for scat play.
It is strictly off limit to me and definitely a deal breaker. Whenever he wants something that I disagree with he tries his business tactics on me till I give in.
I flat out asked him how he got into it and maybe if he needs therapy to feel some self worth. I pleaded with him that we have a great life and I have been down with ALOT of his kinks including some drug habits (under control).
I have lost ALOT of attraction to him ever since he opened up about this side of him. He confessed he has done it about dozen of times in a hotel room with paid escorts. I am not mad at the escort part, but the act of scat