u/ConfidentHope

[Recommendations?] 32L US/32HH UK looking for a wireless “at home” bra that’s comfortable and supportive

Hi, I work from home and my schedule has shifted from being entirely off camera to being on camera several times a week. While I realize you can’t see my chest in the video frame, I instinctively feel more vulnerable without a bra in a professional situation (personally; no judgment if you don’t).

My go-to bras for the last 5 years have been Sugar Candy (https://www.sugarcandybra.com), and the good things are no wires and good size support. However, the band tends to roll in on itself, and the lift is minimal. For comfort, though, they’re decent.

I’m considering buying a new one, but I’m hopeful there may be other options out there that don’t have wires that can still support my heavy chest. Any recommendations? I’m 32 L (US)/32 HH (UK). I’ve done okay with 34 K, but I’ll usually need to go on the tightest hook, which isn’t ideal.

I can sacrifice some lift/support for comfort, but the truth is I’ll always opt for comfort over most things, and I’m at a size where things hang lower than I’d like. I’d love to be able to wear this bra for quick trips out, and not just at home. I basically only use my wired bras for date nights or professional in-person meetings. I’m coming to terms with likely being autistic, so that’s part of why comfort is paramount.

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u/ConfidentHope — 10 hours ago

Elf Camo Concealer

I love e.l.f’s 16 hr camo concealer (light beige). I used to use tarte’s shape tape (12N fair neutral), but this is so much cheaper. My issue is related to color matching. Here’s the thing: I’m very pale and usually can pick the lightest in-store concealer and it’s perfect. However, this concealer’s lightest in-store was light beige. It looks good in a millennial-2016-beat kind of way. However, my millennial self has heard we’re moving away from that and maybe opting darker than brighter. I’m thinking it looks a bit too bright and I want one that’s better with my skin tone.

My undertone is neutral, which is often available in those very fair shades, but then it seems like it’s split between warm/cool undertones. Going “down” a shade is tricky, because I have to choose between so many undertones and I don’t know what’s darker than Light Beige. What do you suggest? Light peach or fair ivory?

u/ConfidentHope — 6 days ago