I only wanna know if a Tamil guy with the below standards exist...
I am 20F, so age should be around my age, maybe a little more...
Extremely ambitious, nerd, hardworking, big dreams(If ppl call you insane and delusional after hearing your dreams, then perfect) and daily actions match it too, so it's not just a guy who talks.
Progressive mindset, Feminist(I mean, all gender equality, lol).
Independent thinker... Can think for himself without the influence of parents, teachers, relatives, etc.
Business Oriented. Cause I literally cannot imagine my guy to be otherwise. But maybe, if he is employed or wants to be employed to save money or gain enough experience to start a business later on, that's great too.
Don't drink, no smoke, no drugs... I know these three is common, but I would also prefer having had no previous relationships either. Like someone who would say, "I want my first relationship to be my only relationship". But this is still just a preference, not mandatory.
Emotional Maturity, Not too insecure(I mean having some is normal, but not to the point he literally comparing and competing with me), Emotional Intelligence, Social intelligence must be all there for the love of God.
Should love to travel, like, a LOT. I love to save money too, but not in a kanjoos way, cause i wanna live my life to the fullest.
Must be health conscious, sorry yeah that is number one priority tbh. Fitness, healthy diet, everything.
Must love to dance and vibe to Tamil songs. Please, this is one of the main reasons I am putting this post here lol.
Genuinely curious and loves to learn, not just for career, but because the world is interesting to him.
Has a sense of humor.
Self aware personally, and also doesn't succumb to illogical toxic traditions.
Respects my time...
Sincere, genuine, honest, down to earth, non clingy, loyal, uk, just all the BARE MINIMUM basically.
Basically, I wanna know if there is a Tamil guy that exists with ALL of these matching.
Enaku theriyanum, intha maari Tamil pasanga irupaangala nu, serious ah. Cause I have never seen even one like this in real life and even online.
Just, let me know.
EDIT: This list basically describes me. I am not expecting better than me. I just curious to know if there is a Tamil guy out there, who can be my equal. That's why this list may seem unfair to some of you guys, but with all due respect, it's a totally fair list for me personally.