I know what it’s like to feel attracted to someone in a relationship. I had a two week long, Situationship years back and I still remember, just feeling so excited and overwhelmed by happiness and attraction. I’ve had this feeling twice with two different people.
My current situation I’ve been dating my boyfriend for around two years, and I honestly am heartbroken because I just cannot find myself being sexually compatible with him. I was a little bit at first, but honestly, not really. I found myself getting super irritated when we hang out because he constantly tries to ask me way too many questions about the topics that we’re not even talking about. I genuinely feel stressed around him and just feel trapped. Obviously, not actually trapped. I know I can leave this relationship at any time. I just feel suffocated by him.
I’m not staying with him because I feel like this is the best I can do. I know that if I leave him, my life will work out no matter what whether that’s in a relationship with someone or not. I am very happy on my own. I’m just feeling very stressed in a relationship and I feel almost controlled and just overwhelmed and have just never really felt that being in love overwhelming emotion even though I do feel like I love him. I just don’t feel overwhelmed with positivity and attraction. Should I let him go or should I stay?