The actual event isn’t that important, but it involved friend A, male, groping friend B (female) while he thought she was asleep/while she actually was asleep. This was a few days ago.
I’ve known them both for years and we’ve been each others’ best friends for most of that time. I’m still in shock, I guess. I thought I knew him. I’m racking my brain looking for a justification, any, that lets us still be friends. He was black-out drunk, so it’s even worse that he apparently doesn’t remember the incident. I know it’s selfish, and I know that this isn’t something we can actually come back from. I just can’t picture the person I thought I knew doing something like this.
I guess I’m just wondering how you guys would go about it. We’re about to graduate college, and part of me wants to just ignore him until I leave. I don’t know. It feels like he died.