AITA for asking my partner about a shampoo bottle I found at his house?
I recently went to my partner's house and I found a shampoo bottle in the bathroom. It wasn't there the last time I was I was there. And its definitely not mine, the shampoo was for blonde hair and I have brown hair.
I asked him about it via text and said it was either his exes or this girl (I'll call her Jane) that occasionally watches his animals when he's away from his house for more than 12 hours. He's never mentioned her before to me nor has he ever mentioned being away from his house for 12 hours before.
When I asked him why he's never mentioned her or him being out of his house for 12 hours before he replied saying that "I mean, there's really nothing to tell. She watches my animals in the event I'm away from my house." As if its normal to keep another girl's personal hygiene products in his bathroom.
After 4 questions, he started to get upset that I was asking him. He accused me of '"drilling" him for answers and that I was asking "with clear malice as an undertone".
Imfeel like he's trying to turn the conversation away from the shampoo bottle and more towards me.
Am I overreacting to this situation?