For starters I’ve been exclusive with this girl for a little over a month and I really like her but there’s a big issue. She lied to me about texting her ex 2 weeks into the relationship.
It wasn’t just a “hey” it was a “I miss you” and normally I would break up and move on and I tried and somehow I ended up staying with her. We talked about it extensively for a couple days and I thought we were good but I realized I didn’t have that trust I used to have in her before all that happened.
THEN just recently, I found an instagram account she created a week and a half ago and on there she only follows guys and I looked at the bios and 3 of them say something about them being single so now I’m just doubting this whole thing. I also confronted her about it and she said she doesn’t remember making it or why she did but the account is on her phone and on the activity page I can confirm it was made a week ago.
I’m really feeling like I’m losing my mind cause she’s always telling me she loves me and how she wants no one else but me and she tells me she’s not doing anything bad or anything behind my back and to trust her and when I spend time with her everything feels right and we get along so well. I just don’t know if my mind is being insecure or if these things happening early in the relationship are signs I should leave