u/ConclusionInside3020

I'm 31(F) and my wife is 27; we have been married for a year and I am not happy. We were dating for about 2 years before we got married because she needed insurance. It was a quick decision and a court house wedding. My gut was telling me it was a bad idea; but I am a fixer and I will try to fix things My family doesn't know we got married and they do not like her; they think she is controlling. We have had fights and she has even filled out divorce papers when one fight got really bad but then deleted them. We are in couple counseling and its going ok but I am not happy in this relationship. My biggest issue is I put everyone else's feelings over my own. There is more things that made me think this way just don't want to put it all out there yet. I guess I am asking for advise on how to bring this up to her. I feel bad because I feel like I'm going to be blindsiding her and I know its not fair to her to keep her in this relationship when I'm not 100% in it. Any advice is appreciated.