u/ComprehensiveTale748

incase you don’t know what I’m talking about, sometimes trans men post ‘how can you tell I’m trans’ or something along those lines, and cis people will say it’s the ‘kindness in our eyes’

at first I thought it was just a weird way of them saying we’re different from ‘evil’ cis men, but I think now I’ve realised they’re just saying we have girly eyes / brow structure.

not to mention, if trans men have ‘kindness in their eyes’ because we were born female, what would they have to say about a trans woman? that she has evil in her eyes? wtf

am I thinking too deep about it? I want to hear other opinions

I went through my parents phones and found texts from a few months ago of them doubting my ‘transness’. my dad outright said to my mum that he thinks it’s a phase and even though he genders me correctly I know he’s brainwashed by the right wing shit he watches on YouTube like matt walsh.

My mum ‘supports’ me but I found out she’s texting chatgpt and saying I have feminine interests, dress feminine at home but dress like a boy in public, my hair is short but feminine, and don’t do anything boyish and is asking how I can identify as male while doing all that

I can’t believe i actually have to prove I’m ‘manly’ enough to these dumbasses lmaoo. the feminine interests I have are anime and video games which is exactly like my dad. i wear feminine clothes (theyre literally just shit like colourful graphic tees or fluffy pajama pants) at home because they’re comfy and I had them before I came out so I don’t know why she expects me to throw out half my clothes. and my hair is a little above my shoulders and all inspo pics I use are from cis guys.

they also ’support’ my social transition but not medically transitioning which just proves they’re waiting for me to grow out of it. anyway this was word vomit but I’m just really irritated because those weren’t the only two things they said about me being trans behind my back