Im a medical resident living temporarily separate for my husband. I tried my best to match close to home but that did not happen and I matched far away. My husband could not find work in that area and so we live separate for now. Im almost done now. 1 year left. My dad died and I had to help my mom with her bills. I asked my husband for an allowance in the meanwhile every month. I noticed he seemed very weird about money so I told him he did not have to send, but that I would need help sometimes. Whenever I ask for help he barely helps or he says he will give me half of what I am asking. Im under extra stress now due to unexpected expenses and again asked for help. He wasn't helpful.
Main thing im scared of is what if I married someone who will never help me. Im scared of living with my husband because he seems lazy and stingy.
Im so sad I cry all the time. When my husband calls I barely answer or message him back anymore.