u/Complex-Basil-5525

I'm a 16 year old girl. I've never felt sexual pleasure. I've had sex multiple times without any problems (ie. pain, anxiety) and in different ways but for some reason it doesn't feel exactly good. Just pleasure. It just hurts sometimes when it goes deep during sex. I feel like my nipples are more sensitive than anywhere else but it's more like mental pleasure then. And my clitoris doesn't seem to work either, it just feels the sensation of touch. So masturbation isn't possible. I think I've felt sexual pleasure and arousal before puberty, but I was too scared to actually fully masturbate. It's weird, but I know how sexual pleasure feels and I feel it in my dreams. I don't think I've got a libido anymore either. I've been on hormonal birth control since January 2025 or something. And lubes that are supposed to enhance blood flow to the vagina and clitoris don't seem to work. I don't know what's wrong with me. Every doctor says I'm too young to know what I like or that my senses will develop soon but isn't it weird how I feel literally 0 sexual pleasure while others my age feel atleast a tiny bit of pleasure? And I'm otherwise very healthy with no symptoms of anything. I'm not depressed or anxious either. There are no concerning diseases that run in my family either. Help? This is not normal. Please don't suggest just masturbating, it's not working.