u/Complete_Lie2690

We live abroad, so absolutely no support. I think we could have more kids it if my partner could step up on mental load.

He is really good at day to day but does not spend a minute thinking about activities, camps, school (we live in a crazy county so there is public school lottery, private schools with millions of different approaches), play dates, new clothes, etc

I feel like he is already much better than most dads, but the mental load would be too much on me.

Anyone on the same boat of “could”? I don’t resent him because in on the fence, but I’m afraid of resenting