u/Complete_Area7270

Don't you want your mini you running around?

No, I don't. I don't want anybody running around my house, I don't care if it's my kids, somebody else's, old or young. Do not run around in my home. Imagine coming back from a long day's work and all you want to do is eat, sleep, or just unwind in complete silence before you do it all over again tomorrow, and all of a sudden, you hear this loud ear-breaking sound: the annoying thumping of a toddler. You tell them to stop and they stop, look at you for a second before going right back to running around the house again and they won't stop unless somebody decides to stop what they were doing (lying down, sleeping, cooking etc) and physically has them stop. It's Saturday today and all I want to do is relax but I can't even do that because there are currently two children running around screaming what's worse is that they never run out of energy and will continue to do this all day. "Why can't you teach them not to do it again?" They're a different kind, they don't listen at all, and I'm just tired. I'm not their mother and I'm so glad I can't imagine dealing with this for 18 years or at least past the toddler phase.

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u/Complete_Area7270 — 4 days ago

I feel like a lot of men want biological children and I'm a woman who does not want kids, and from what I've read and seen online there are a lot of men who pretend to be child-free so they can get with a woman who doesn't want kids and lie about it for years and decades. In the end, they both end up with the time because he thought he would convince her to change her mind, but she never did. For me not to go through that. I want to lie about being fertile I want to tell the person I'm going to date that I can't have kids, I have less than 1% chance of ever conceiving, or that I got my uterus taken out, and see if they would stick it through. And that's how I'd have a 90% chance of knowing if he's actually child-free or if he's just hoping that I would change my mind for him.

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u/Complete_Area7270 — 10 days ago

I've been using Askfirmations audio made by me as my primary technique. I'd listen to it in the morning, every overnight, raising my vibrations whenever I think about my manifestation, I ignore the 3D, visualizing at night before I sleep, going on rants about how I'm currently having my manifestations right now in this moment, and overall genuinely/subconsciously believe that I do have my manifestations. I see synchronicities all day, every day specifically relating to what I want (already have) I've recently started using subliminal audio. Now I feel like doing all of this is redundant (I'm not burned out at all). I feel like it's no longer necessary and there's just no need to do anything anymore, if I ordered something online and it finally got delivered to me there's no need to keep checking to see when my package will be delivered when it's already here. Why do I feel this way? I feel truly discouraged from doing anything more like okay let me just live now, it's here I have it okay bye it was nice doing all of these techniques thanks. That's how I feel.

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u/Complete_Area7270 — 11 days ago

I live in the USA & the birthrate is the lowest it's ever been, a lot fewer teenagers are having kidsetc. I (F18) am single & want no kids as well as most women/people in my generation but the government wants kids they tried to lure us with a compensation of 5 thousand dollars (2500/parent) which is not enough to cover medical bills or any follow-up appointment the kid might need. Medicare/Medicaid is currently being defunded and im on Medicaid, I can't afford to leave my parents' home (so does my 27-year-old sister), housing is not affordable, HeadStart(a program that help kids financially) is being defunded, basic things like food is expensive, they're trying/ taking away free school lunch from kids, the homeless rate is rising (I was homeless 4 times). In this state why would I want to bring any kids here? People love trying to pursue young women (under 25) to have kids "women are putting more effort in their career over starting their own family" the only thing I need of my own is money, what's so great about staying my own family? The family i was born in is my family. Not to mention the high possibility of me dying childbirth. Do they want me to hurry up and possibly die? For someone I don't even know/ doesn't exist? No thanks

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u/Complete_Area7270 — 11 days ago

My mom, sister, and the two toddlers are away on a funeral, and for the first time in years, I get the opportunity to sleep in. I woke up and and slowly took in this strange environment. Was it calm? No screaming, crying, toddlers? No running around stomping on the floor toddler? It was so weird but it felt nice, the house is beautifully quiet. Usually, my niece would wake me up or I would get woken up at 2 am by my sister screaming, with the way she would jump on the wooden floor, accompanied by a drizzle of my sister yelling at her to stop. Yes, YES that's exactly what I've always wanted, that's the future that I imagine for myself: peace and quiet and it finally happened and I thought to myself why wouldn't I want something like this every day, why would I vanish away this feeling for 18 years (minimum)? 10/10 only my 12-year-old brother is here with me and he's nothing to worry about he's a big kid. I love ❤️ , I looove, I love

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u/Complete_Area7270 — 11 days ago

With 8 billion people on this Earth why do we need new ones anymore, terrible things happen to children all day, every day. Nobody's putting any effort into finding the missing kids, they're trying to remove free school lunch from kids in the U.S., gun violence is the #1 reason for death for kids in the US and Nobody's doing anything to prevent more school shootings from happening in the future. 17 and under at minimum should have free healthcare, but they don't. Most things prevents children from being harmed don't exist and this world is too cruel, climate change brings a thing tell me why I should bring my kids here? No thanks. New≠better.

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u/Complete_Area7270 — 13 days ago