u/Complete-Hotel-2189

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I (17f) hid something that I shouldn’t have from my gf (17f)

my girlfriend and I grew up differently. She was pretty comfortable and definitely loved. I was neglected.

She is also a hypochondria. I was unvaccinated growing up and talking about a mutual friend (who was also unvaccinated) made me realize how serious she takes that. I brushed it off ‘wow that’s crazyyy that (friend) wasn’t vaccinated.’

I genuinely ADORE this girl. So, I begged my mother to let me get up-to-date. She said ‘yes’ but there’s stuff she will nottt budge on letting me get. unfortunately, they’re incredibly relevant shots. COVID, being the most notable one. I don’t want to lose my beautiful, perfect girlfriend but I also take her boundaries incredibly serious.

I also feel awful that Gf didn’t know about this problem for so long. almost 6 months! I thought I could fix it quickly enough. We have not been physical, and obviously I am not diseased. but I feel dirty.

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u/Complete-Hotel-2189 — 2 days ago

Am I being realistic…?

(sorry, yes I js made this account but its cus i deleted my old one. im not a bot :(( )

I’m 17 years old and I have been homeschooled since i was pulled out of pre-school. I have been very focused on learning before I graduate. I was severely neglected BUT in my opinion, I am average intelligence. Teaching myself using online resources, I’ve went from third grade level to 8th grade (9th grade, soon) in about 1.5 year. I think i’m on track at this point to ‘graduate’ but i’ll probably only complete algebra 1 and 2. (nothing advanced.)

OKAY. so… I’m not sure what it is that inspired me, but I want to be a kindergarten teacher. Problem is that I barely have any transcripts that prove my hs education. IF I transfer to a community college, get good grades then transfer to a proper university… do you think I could ever achieve that? or since thats a job in education, is it risky? there’s almost no proof of anything I learned (well… my mom has some folders of stuff but its from when I was severely behind.) Should I throw in the towel and just invest in a trade instead? (cosmetology is my second option.) Any educated advice would be appreciated, ALSO sorry this is written sloppily. I promise I am decent at English. lol

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u/Complete-Hotel-2189 — 6 days ago