I (17f) hid something that I shouldn’t have from my gf (17f)
my girlfriend and I grew up differently. She was pretty comfortable and definitely loved. I was neglected.
She is also a hypochondria. I was unvaccinated growing up and talking about a mutual friend (who was also unvaccinated) made me realize how serious she takes that. I brushed it off ‘wow that’s crazyyy that (friend) wasn’t vaccinated.’
I genuinely ADORE this girl. So, I begged my mother to let me get up-to-date. She said ‘yes’ but there’s stuff she will nottt budge on letting me get. unfortunately, they’re incredibly relevant shots. COVID, being the most notable one. I don’t want to lose my beautiful, perfect girlfriend but I also take her boundaries incredibly serious.
I also feel awful that Gf didn’t know about this problem for so long. almost 6 months! I thought I could fix it quickly enough. We have not been physical, and obviously I am not diseased. but I feel dirty.