How do I get gf back? F/20 M/19
Hi so for context me 19/M and my now ex girlfriend 20/F just broke up and it’s been killing me. I have not lost feelings for her at all and I want to continue are relationship. We have been together for a year and a half and it’s been mutually an amazing relationship where we both really love each other. To give some contexts on what r relationship was like we are semi long distance where we see eachother twice a month because of school, we get into fight probably once a week and it never escalates to much where we tend to make up the same day. We had a conversation before we broke up about taking a break and we tried to push off of taking one but later decided to try and take one for a week. One day into the break she had texted me at 4 am saying we needed to talk in the morning where on the call she broke up with me. She couldn’t bring herself to even say it because she felt so bad, and she wanted to still be friends because she loved me so much and had admitted she has had a feeling of doubt that it was going to work for 3 months. I haven’t been the best boyfriend as she says I don’t lead are relationship and she wants to feel like a girl and relaxed with me, but she feels as though she is always on alert. I pushed back on wanting to break up as I still have feelings for her and love her so much. I told her I didn’t want to friends and that I only want to be with her romanticly. She didn’t want me to block her because she didn’t want to lose me so I didn’t do that immediately. At the end of are conversation I said we should go no contact for 3 days as I have exams to study for, and I asked her please rethink this and see if we can salvage anything. I want to know how I should go about getting her back and what I should say or not say so we can continue together.