As per the title, I want to tell my girlfriend I love her.
Context on the relationship: we’ve been together for three weeks as of tomorrow, but have been talking for almost 8 weeks total. We have talked non stop every day since the moment we started talking.
When we were one week into dating, she already sort of told me she loved me. We were joking around and I said, “oh so you just hate me” and she said “no I don’t, it’s the opposite.” And me being a dumbass I asked her what she meant and she said that she couldn’t say. I then realized what she meant and jokingly told her to say it then. She said that we’ve only been dating a week and I agreed that maybe it was too soon. But even back then I felt like I loved her.
I hand wrote a note for her and made it fancy (coffee stained it and made an envelope as well) and I’m planning on giving it to her tonight to read while she’s over at my place. At the end of the note it says “I love you.”
Is it too soon? I’ve been asking all of my friends but they all have different answers. One of my friends said two weeks minimum, another said three months, another said a month and a half.
Maybe it’s too soon but we’ve been talking a lot longer than we’ve been dating, and we’ve both been exclusive and in a somewhat serious relationship since the beginning.