u/Competitive_Many2577

I’m pregnant with my 6th. People have told me LOTS of things that are really difficult with this many children and blah blah blah… but you know what no one warned me about!? I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO NAME THIS KID. It’s REALLY hard to come up with a name that matches 5 other names. Only one of my kids has a family name, one of my daughters is named after my older sister who passed away, so I don’t want to use a family name. Plus we have to remember that I’m naming an adult, lots of pressure. For reference, my kids names are: August, Bridget, Theo, Clara, and Belle.

Any advice?? — It’s a baby boy!

I’m 22 weeks pregnant with my 6th baby. For all my past pregnancies I’ve had a baby shower after we find out the gender, so because of this my family is expecting and already planning a baby shower. But honestly, I don’t want a baby shower. Listening to my family bitch and moan about how we have “so much on our hands!” and how I’m “so big for 22 weeks!”

The judgment is just so infuriating and I can’t think of a single reason that a shower is worth my time and annoyance. Should I break it to my mother in law that we don’t want it??