Such an interesting change which happens when you get your own horse
My yard is a large competition yard and now it’s become private so no outside people can come for a ride or a lesson unless they own the horse. But I’ve been riding there since 2016 so I kept coming back and back in October I’ve bought my own and with the help of my trainer managed to skip the queue and take the stable straight away. Before no one would talk to me, besides my trainer obviously. Slowly as month progressed now that everyone knows who we are it’s been such a nice change.
I am pretty introverted but sometimes it’s gets a little lonely and it’s nice to hear someone just say hi and how are you doing. Another person let me use her stable cause it has a large window and my horse has some breathing issues, whilst mine didn’t. I know it’s not for forever cause she is actively looking for a second horse but it still feels nice. That someone actually cares.
People started asking me what happened and if everything is okay now since my horse went suddenly very lame seemingly out of nowhere. It is nice to know that throw strangers care a little to even acknowledge me.
People have small talk with me whilst our horses warm up or cool down.
I’ve never been a part of something like this before, so it feels good and strange at the same time.