Im looking for advice
Is it true that avoidant people push away the one they care about the most and treat them differently? Like colder and make no time to see you anymore? Yet they call you almaot everyday sometimes multiple times a day and text you first most of the time. They say because theyre busy and going thru alot right now and dont want to hurt me. Everything seems to be on their terms. Ive been doing alot of work on myself so I can be the best healthiest version of myself possible. Everything was going great and flowing and then boom I noticed a withdrawal. I know theyre busy with work, personal life, health and of course spend time with your friends. I dont want to take up all of their time. Do they come back around or did they lose interest? Or am I not being considerate? Just looking to help understand better.