u/Cold_Vacation4611

Due giorni fa ho preso la decisione di andare no contact dopo 3 anni di relazione.

Purtroppo oltre a stare insieme, condividiamo tutte le classi e siamo in coppia in un corso impegnativo.

Oramai manca un mese alla fine del laboratorio, e separarci ora sarà molto complicato, ma per me la situazione non era più sostenibile. (vedi altro post sul mio account per avere un esempio della situazione)

Il professore che gestisce il laboratorio mi aveva accennato di voler offrirmi un lavoro alla fine del corso. Ho paura di fare una figura di merda di fronte a lui, non so come giustificare questa decisione che ho preso.

Ho paura di cosa possa raccontare in giro la mia ex.

ci sono dei percorsi ufficiali per chiedere sostegno all’università, senza dover sventolare ai 4 venti la mia vita personale?

i (m22) have been in the relationship for 3 years,
i left her (f21) 3 times and 3 times i came back to her because… our lives were too much tangled

yesterday after building a lot of courage i decided to go no contact, which will be very difficult to do since we share university, course and work group

but i couldn’t bring myself to just write a message and did the horrible decision of seeing her in person to tell her my decision

as soon as we started talking and i hinted at us breaking up and not working together anymore, she told me that it was an unfair decision in her regards and that i was being irresponsible

“if you leave the group now it’s as bad as if i entered you home without asking (she did this btw), you know what? if you can decide for me, i will decide for you too and i am deciding now that we will continue working together”

as she said this i just left
she grabbed my things so i couldn’t leave, but i pulled (maybe made her fell didn’t notice) and left

then she started following me saying, “you just hit me, you hit me and you leave? do you think this is something reasonable to do?”

then i asked her repeatedly to leave me alone and to stop following me, at the third time i said this i told her that i would have called the police

when i called the police she kept distance but continued following me for 2/3 minutes until she went the other way

this happened yesterday, i blocked her everywhere, i am terrified on what is to come