u/Cold-Monk5436

My wife and I have decided to seek marriage counseling. Do you think the gottman method couples therapy would be good to try? We are almost empty nesters and we put all of our energy into the kid. We want to try and make it work and was wondering if anyone here has had good results.

tl;dr
What is your experience with the gottman method couples therapy? Is it a good method to try?

My wife and I are looking for a marriage counselor.

Most important, we would like someone who is not influenced by religious affiliation.

Thanks for any suggestions.

I'm looking forward to many more years of writing music for my own amusement now that I've completely let go of the idea of having an audience. Just me and my home studio like a tree falling in the woods with no one to hear it.