u/Col_Flag

My covert narcissist husband has recently been trying a new thing. He has made several comments lately in various forms that sound like he’s trying to make me jealous.

Like he’s so sexy other women would love to have him or I’m so lucky because there’s so many other women out there that would just love to receive what he’s got.

I wish I could remember the exact wording of what he said. And my response is I look at him and laugh and say if you can find a woman that wants you, she can have you.

Like be for real nobody wants that shit and if they do, they can have him with my compliments. 🤣

Just needed to rant for a minute.

He (covert narc husband) was asleep on the couch and I was reading my book. Then he wakes up and starts yelling at me because I wasn’t ready to go yet. This was news to me, I knew he mentioned going to a store today, but when he laid down to take his nap, he didn’t say a word about wanting me to be getting ready and wanting to go as soon as he woke up.

He said that it was just common sense that I should know and he shouldn’t have to tell me that his expectation was for me to be getting ready. I told him that it wasn’t fair to get mad at me for expectations and timelines that he had in his head that he didn’t express out loud. I’m not a mind reader. Then he gets mad and says, just forget it and starts stomping and slamming things around, then stomps to the door and slams it on his way outside.

This was not an emergency, he just wanted to go to the farm store to pick up a few things for gardening.

Wow. Now my body is full of anxiety and stress. What an asshole.