Dumper here: I want him back, but I’m scared
For context, I (F) broke up with my partner (M) a few months ago. He had some issues with family that bled into our relationship and I felt unprioritized. I loved him tremendously and we had a genuinely great relationship but it got to me too much and I needed him to figure his situation out.
Fast forward to now, I miss him terribly. I reached out and it felt like the same love we had in the relationship. It was incredibly warm. We chatted for days but then I found myself scared again needing to pull back.
He seems to be much more level headed, and he seems to be actually doing what he should have been doing with his family. But I also still am so afraid of being heart broken again :(. I love him and realized how much I love him but I can’t shake the fear fully just yet.
Any tips here?