Husband Caught Cheating & Immediately Discarded the Family...
I caught my husband of 4 years cheating with prostitutes in February. At first I didn't know the extent of it...and of course still probably don't. It seems he discarded me immediately after I found out. He first lied but with further information, he went into Silent Treatment mode and after I confronted the girl who provides him with the prostitutes, he left. Took a few things and left, came back when I left town and packed the rest of his items. Not only was he paying for sex with prostitutes, he also used my money to do so.
He used his Mom as his Flying Monkey and changed the narrative. She encouraged him to leave and he has done nothing for our son. He first tried to create the narrative that I was keeping him from his son by blocking him, yet at the same time he told people this..he was texting me and getting replies. I then suggested a coparenting App which he said he could not afford so the few calls he previously made, he stopped. Has only contacted me to ask me to find his brothers debit card, which I ignored and has not even asked about our son in weeks. He is staying 15 minutes away and only came to see our toddler when he was hospitalized. He never acknowledged or even looked at me...in fact he has not since the confrontation. My son asked for him again last night so I called, but he ignored the call and then posted to his snap chat movies he was watching lol.
In all of this the shocking thing is the discard of the child. Is that typical? Does this permit full custody or anything if someone isn't contacting or paying anything towards the childs care? I am not in need of his financial support but not caring about your child at all, after being with him continuously for three years is crazy. Of course everyone favors the "She won't let me see my son" narrative.