u/CmPunkfan99

Yes we suffer from the societal part of being ugly: bullied, not accepted, ignored. But oh boy, normal people are suffering in the romantic way as well, but they usually experience it later. Guys find out their wives/GF’s are cheating on them with the guy at work or girls find out that their boyfriend has a wife he’s been hiding. Now yes they experience love/connection but it does not last forever. As cruel as it maybe, this is what keeps me from so sad, I’m actually kinda happy when I see this happen, I don’t really wish it on anybody tho. For example the famous soccer player Kaka divorced his wife because she said “he was too perfect” and the football quarterback Tom Brady divorced his wife because she was cheating with the Yoga instructor. In my personal life this 55 year old good looking dude at my work is cheating on his wife the 28 year old coworker. As I said before, I do not condone cheating or anything but for me, it’s comforting to know that they experience some pain of what we all go through

I work with a guy who is mid 30’s. He’s tall full head of hair, a bit of wrinkles but he does look his age. My female coworkers literally lust over him. He’s good at talking but I suspect the girls are more interested in his good looks and height. Makes me laugh when people say “looks fade”

I wasn’t born with best genes but I can walk, can talk, my eyesight is bad but I can still see. A lot of people in the world don’t have those things, I have a loving family, many people don’t have that. But when I wake up it’s hard to be appreciative of those things. I’m trying to be thankful for those things, but when I look in the mirror, it all goes to negativity. Honestly I wasn’t even bullied for my looks, just ignored. I’m getting older (21) and so are my relatives so I’m just trying appreciate the time we have but damn it’s hard man. It’s hard to be positive in our position. But I’m trying, hopefully we all will

If I was asexual, bro I legit wouldn’t care, or at least less. I grew up listening to R&B music (I.e Mario - let me love you, Lloyd - You) and Spanish artist. I grew up fantasizing holding hands with a female, rubbing her feet when she got outta work, stuff like that, damn