u/ClrBlindConservative

I’m having a bit of a dilemma. I’m 34 male and started seeing this 33 female around august of 2025. Everything was going great we went out like 2 times ended up sleeping together and then continued to hang out and chill up until January of 2026. Then I decided hey I’m going to invite this girl over for dinner. I cook and prep a meal and she comes over to help out. One thing leads to another and we sit down to eat. She finished before me so upon finishing she takes her plate to the sink and leaves the table to go sit on my couch leaving me to sit alone and eat. I was a little miffed but finished my food without saying anything and cleaned up. After I went over to the couch and told her that I thought it was a little rude she got up from the table and essentially left me hanging at my table alone, let alone in my house that I prepped a meal in for date night. She didn’t think anything of it and i then said, something along the lines of that’s just disrespectful and not thoughtful. She then gets up and decides to leave and i didn’t prevent her from going. We haven’t talked for 2.5 months since. It’s crazy to me that this is how it ended. Should I revive this or is it done? It’s important to note she was sorta in a mean mood when she arrived. Either way I feel disrespected and hurt. I’m curious why she hasn’t checked in either. Am I the bad one? Seems to me like she screwed up.

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u/ClrBlindConservative — 16 days ago