Should I reach out to his new gf?
I’ve been broken up with my ex bf of two years for almost a year, it will actually be a year this Saturday since I’ve last seen him and been with him. He was very emotionally and physically abusive, if you want more context there’s some posts about it on my page.
But basically he’s tried to reach out a lot over that time span, and eventually I felt strong enough to block his number. It has been blocked for about 4ish months, and I haven’t heard from him. He has been viewing my TikTok account a decent amount, and i eventually got the strength to block that too, about a month or two ago.
I went to block it and found out he has a new gf. They didn’t post anything together but he was reposting relationship videos, and I found out who she was from there. Curiosity killed the cat, I know. I should’ve minded my own business but what’s done is done I guess.
Anyway, yesterday I got a text from an unsaved number, and i asked who it was and the person kept dodging the question, but then i figured out it was him. He was acting kinda unhinged and asking out getting some of his old stuff back (which is actually mine that i got as a gift from him) that he never cared about in the first place. I kept asking him to stop texting me and let it go, and i was so confused because he was acting so strange and not giving it up. I said I don’t want any issues and he said there’s gonna be issues now, and basically he won’t leave me alone. He said it was his new number but I’m assuming he was using a fake one, although I could be wrong.
I blocked that number too, but I feel really bad for his new gf that’s he’s still messaging me and doing all of this, because I’m guessing she doesn’t know. I don’t know if I should just tell her he texted me or something alone those lines, or let it be to protect myself. I just feel so bad. Also I know it’s not my responsibility and quite frankly also none of my business, but idk. I’d love some advice.