I really need some advice/perspective, please read 🙏🏾
(22M, 6’5”) Ok so I’ve been dating this girl ( 22F 5’3”) for the past 7 months and everything has been great in our relationship with what we have in common, our values align and the compatibility is there. But I’ve been noticing over the course of the time we’ve been having sex that I don’t get as 100% rock hard and had trouble staying hard the whole time and I’m different positions with her and I’ve never had this issue with my previous relationship (I do masturbate pretty often so cutting that out may help/ increase sensitivity, but even then it wasn’t an issue at all with my ex girlfriend). I think I’m attracted at least sexually to tall thick girls, between like 5’7”- 5’11” as I am 6’4” myself. My girlfriend has definitely been the best relationship in all areas I just feel like our sex isn’t the best I’ve ever had and I feel like like I’m not performing like I have before with my ex and my inability to go for as long or stay hard the whole time has been a slight issue, nothing to break us up about but I don’t want it to continue and I don’t wanna keep feeling this way. I’m looking for advice on how I should go about this situation, I genuinely don’t know what to do, every other aspect of our relationship is great but I feel like there’s more to be had in regards to the sex, I really don’t wanna come across shallow because I care about this girl so so deeply and If this wasn’t an issue then we wouldn’t have any at all! I just want to know what you all think about the situation and if you could please offer any advice based on what I’ve shared, I’m happy to share more to get a better perspective. I just wanna know if this is something that can be improved, my current gf is the best relationship we’ve both ever been in outside of the sex and performance issues. I really need some perspective on this
TL;DR
I’m having sexual performance issues with my gf that I didn’t have with my ex. I think it might be linked to more attraction to taller thicker builds but I want to figure out how I can fix it bc we have an amazing relationship in all other aspects and I still am attracted to her just wondering what’s the best course of action