What is the psychology behind this?
In my country there are fat people, but I wasnt this fat before. I am 1.7 meters / 5 ft 7 inches, and recently went from 90 kg to 100 kg (from 200 to 220 lbs) due to depression and giving up on dating.
What I noticed recently after asking women out again, that 2 out of 10 said she is ok with getting to know me. 1 ignored me however, and with the other woman I wasnt a match.
But what is even weirder, is that it happens to me every week that a woman comes up to me and tries to interact with me. They arent even bad looking women, it is just that I didnt take the chance to ask them out because I am so surprised by this.
Why do women do this? Are they seeking reassurance, or do they really find big men attractive, despite being fat?