TW Abortion. My (19F) Boyfriend (22M) Mark and I just found out that I am pregnant. I am in college and absolutely not in a place to have a baby, so we are opting for an abortion. The state we live in has restricted abortion heavily, and I cannot afford to take the time to go to another state. Because of this, we ordered the pills online. They are supposed to arrive sometime next week. I did a lot of research on the process, and it seems like you’re kinda down and out for at least a day (if not two). I expressed to Mark that I cannot take the pills during the week, as it is my finals week, so I will need to do so on the weekend. This would be Mother’s Day weekend. He told me that he would not be there because he cannot miss Mother’s Day brunch. I would understand if his mom was old or didn’t get to see him much but he sees her every single day at work. I told him how scared I was and that I didn’t want to do it alone but he said I could choose to miss my finals. He the iterated that plenty of women do it alone and I kind of told him off and said something to the effect of “i’m glad we’re getting an abortion because you would be a horrible father.” (I know, very shitty). I have apologized and apologized but he will not forgive me because I won’t back down from wanting him with me when I take the meds. Am I the Asshole?
EDIT: Monday after isn’t super feasible because I do have a full time job starting that day.