u/Clean_Weakness_9521

20F Persian, live alone and my apartment has a pole in it. I like dancing and find it to be super fun. I am seeing a guy whose 24 and when he saw it he asked if I work somewhere and I said no I just enjoy it and he found it hard to believe and doesn’t wanna date me now. is this just how guys are! it’s genuinely just a hobby to me. I’m super upset I had sex with this guy and danced for him, that’s what made him think I used to do this professionally. Is this just how guys will be?