I think my bf is getting fired again and idk when to give up.
Idk what to do i really just need some advice. Im 19(F) and my bf is 20(M). We've been togther for two years and in that time hes only had three jobs, none of which hes kept longer than 3 months. He worked at dominos at the mid - end of last year for a couple of months and then quit because he locked his keys in his car while on a delivery and couldnt get them out until the end of the shift and the manager didnt wamt to pay him for the shift becayse of that. Then he did a tafe course in car electricals. Then got a job in a truck shop for two weeks but was then let go because he 'couldnt keep up' amf the boss thought he was lazy. I said at that point he needed to get a job and keep it or im done because its so exhausting constantly worrying about it and nagging him.
So then he got a job in a car yard which hes had for 3 months. And basically over those three months hes left early twice because he didnt feel well. Took two days leave for a fishing trip with his grandad. Had a day off not last week but the week before because he had a headache. And last week he took two days off because he had a cold. He called in on friday and his boss said 'okay we are having a one on one chat about your employment on monday'. Which sounds like hes getting fired. Then today (which is monday) he called in sick AGAIN because of aches and pains. Its genuinley so fustraiting because i said when ge had a headache that he cant not go for minor reasons, because he will look unreliable. And then he kept doing it and its exactly what i said would happen.
He is actually sick (i am now sick too and its not pleasant) and legally you cant fire someone because they have taken sick days and provided doctors notes. So im thinking it must be because of somwthing else and the sick days are the last straw. I thimk he just has a very low work ethic.
I really love this guy and i want it to work so bad. Ig we are still young, I dont know when to give up. I want to have a comfortable future and that means being with someone who can pull their own weight. Im scared that if i stay it will just keep happening. I just need some advice.