what do i do??
i (34m) was in a relationship with my ex for about 6 years (37m) that recently ended because he cheated and contracted HIV. he claimed the cheating only happened once, which i don’t believe. he also has not disclosed when it happened. i got tested and i am negative thankfully- however he’s not telling the full story.
how do i get him to tell me what really happened? the damage has already been done i js want to know for my own peace of mind. it’s all i have been thinking about lately. i can’t shake these feelings.
i thought i could coexist in the apartment and keep it cool but i’m about to blow up!! it happened about two months ago and i have been trying to figure out how to navigate. i js want to erase him from my life but we are in a lease together until December 2026. at this point i can’t stand to be around him because he’s a pathological liar and a coward. i want to have a mature conversation and kick him out of the apartment or get a sublease and leave bc i don’t think he’s looking for another place to live. he’s also VERY immature.
how do i go about this?
EDIT: the main reason why i want to know the truth is because we had sex 2 weeks after the time he claimed it happened. although i’m negative it can show up later on and i’m paranoid that it will.