u/Classic_Context7750

Okay so i see her in the hallways only and she’s always with some friends. What i know about her is: Shes the same nationality as i am, she is shy/socially anxious, gets no male attention (sounds brutal to say it that way), and i know her tiktok account, and we share a lot of interests and are very very alike personality wise

BUT
she doesnt know me at all like we haven’t spoken one word, so idk how to talk to her if shes always with friends and would most likely not talk to me again out of shyness so i gotta make the first moves always, BUT: a good friend of mine who could help me goes in her class, i just dont know HOW he could help me

At the moment i have 2 plans:

1. Ask her out directly, possibly with help from my friend (Problem: i think she’d probably panic and just say no idk maybe wouldnt idk)
2. Try to get to know her, slow way (Problem: i think she’d just talk to me once she aint the type to talk to people first and i cant always be talking first i could make her uncomfortable or sum idk)
3. You guys give me ideas

asking here cus girls know girls better i guess

i made this post yesterday but i accidentally deleted it my apologies mods, also this version has some more info/better written than my old cluttered up post

Okay so i see her in the hallways only and she’s always with some friends. What i know about her is: Shes the same nationality as i am, she is shy/socially anxious, gets no male attention (sounds brutal to say it that way), and i know her tiktok account, and we share a lot of interests and are very very alike personality wise

BUT
she doesnt know me at all like we haven’t spoken one word, so idk how to talk to her if shes always with friends and would most likely not talk to me again out of shyness so i gotta make the first moves always, BUT: a good friend of mine who could help me goes in her class, i just dont know HOW he could help me

At the moment i have 2 plans:

1. Ask her out directly, possibly with help from my friend (Problem: she’d probably panic and just say no)
2. Try to get to know her, slow way (Problem: she’d just talk to me once she aint the type to talk to people first and i cant always be talking first i could make her uncomfortable or sum)
3. You guys give me ideas