Backstory: I was unfaithful before, but my ex and I are trying to make things work. We lost a baby almost 2 years ago. It's obviously a pretty sensitive topic for the both of us. My biggest goal in life has been/still is to be a great father. I battled with alcoholism for a large part of my life, including the times of unfaithfulness. I am now over half a year sober. Part of my sobriety is trying to take accountability of my actions, especially the actions during my active addiction. Although I believe I am doing a good job at this, I'm sure I've slipped up from time to time and would like to correct that when it happens. Part of taking accountability has been allowing her to have her bad days and when she's thinking about past actions and feeling hurt by my actions. I try to let her get it out in whatever way she needs to, and whenever she needs to. Again, I'm sure I've slipped up at times.
Okay, enough of the backstory. Now to current day. Again, we are attempting to make things work. However, we are not living together at the moment. Well, she reposted something on social media that said, "I will forever wonder if losing our baby saved me from you, or took the only version of us that could've worked." When I brought up that it was wrong and hurtful, her main concerns have been "Idk how you even seen that." Or, "You weren't meant to see that." Or, "You're taking it out of context and only seeing what you want to see."
AITH here for being upset about this?
Also, I would understand better if the relationship was abusive, or was dangerous in any way.
I've been unfaithful. I've been a lot of things in the past, but never abusive.