u/Classic-Ask-1048

I'm kinda ok at small talk and talking to women I guess, I mostly just try to be myself like everyone says. I'm just not sure where I can actually meet people though, like yeah, in a couple days I turn 21 and I can start going to bars and meeting people, but what if I dont wanna go to a bar to find someone.

My main hobby is paintball, I don't see myself finding anyone through my hobbies . And I don't exactly wanna do some cheeseball shit and do speed dating.

Idk, anyone got any advice?