u/Civil_Mammoth_8505

Why do woman stalk?

My ex broke up with me around seven months ago, mostly due to stress, her avoidant tendencies, and people-pleasing.

Around February, we randomly met and wrote a bit afterward, but I stopped because she has her finals and I didn’t want to disrupt her during that time. After that, she started watching my Instagram stories, even though she doesn’t follow me. Sometimes it’s her, sometimes it’s her best friend. Sometimes she watches them 4-5 times.

The same thing happened with a friend of mine. His ex broke up with him after five years because long distance wasn’t working for her. Additionally, she said he didn’t invest as much as she did, and so on. She started stalking him too, but unlike in my case, she even reached out to a friend of mine to ask what he was doing.

I find it funny because both of them did the breaking up, why do they stalk instead of reaching out? Especially the ex from my friend, if you’re as curious as her about his life just ask him lol

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u/Civil_Mammoth_8505 — 3 days ago