u/Citrinee00

My first potential WLW.

Me (18f) is talking to this girl through text. i know this girl because she is a friend in my friend group of 4. we are all in high school ; but I am finishing up my senior year, the girl line personally talking to is a junior.

She seems interested in me, and right out the bat , we do share similarities, very similar music tastes, & the bond seemed pretty instantaneous. She admitted on text , said that she was tempted to flirt with me.. But backed down, saying that she flirts with all of her friends & to not take it serious.

But she does seem like she wants to hang out with me one on one; she asked me to visit a local record store and we can go together after school. so the signals are a little bit mixed right now; i did tell her that I am taking it slow for personal reasons & mental health. but she is kind of making it obvious that she is interested in me & straight up said that I am very pretty.

This is my first genuine experience that seems consensual and not creepy. Though she is a new friend, because I had moved into the school half of the year.

Any advice? she's already asking for me and her to hang out.

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u/Citrinee00 — 4 days ago
▲ 6 r/curlygirl+1 crossposts

any tips for a first time dyed hair?

i only used a bit of developer for my hair <hi-lift> ( as. i did not want to use bleach) my hair was already a light brown, so I had the hairstylist just have red on top of it to make it this mahogany color. & was cut in layers, finger coiled and diffused.

Any suggestions for keeping it this red for a long while? i wear my bonnet nightly. i'm trying my best not to have it bleed ( i'm not gonna wash it with warm water to avoid bleeding) ?

u/Citrinee00 — 4 days ago