u/Cinnamon_GirI

24F Looking for casual conversation

I'll admit, i'm quite the depressed recluse. Going through a bad breakup. I have like, two friends on Discord and that's about it. Not the closest to them. I acknowledge it's bc of my social skills. There are times I respond in five seconds, and there have been times I responded days later. I'm putting that out on the table now as alot of people on this subreddit are very particular about having the perfect friend and expecting that from every person they message on here. Just don't want to feel judged or interrogated for not being on top of conversations. If we don't click, we don't click. If we do, we do. I won't force anything. I would love to talk to a stranger online about anything they want, anything they like, anything they're going through, etc. Maybe we'll have more in common than expected :)

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u/Cinnamon_GirI — 3 days ago
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Goodbye, friend.

You always eyed and searched for attention from other women throughout entire relationship.. while there was one who'd do anything for you. I gave you all that I could but it was never enough. I was never enough. Even when I asked you for $10 flowers on Valentine's Day and you said no. It was only until I walked away did you actually want me to stay. I loved you at your worst. But my past mistakes are all that i'll ever be to you. I'm spending Mother's Day alone with our baby, picking up the pieces after deciding to pour love into myself instead. I'm an unhealed, mentally unwell woman who loved somebody that hates her guts. I accepted that it would never change. If paying for a woman's time is what will fill that empty void inside of you, then so be it. I hope you find happiness within yourself one day.

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u/Cinnamon_GirI — 4 days ago

In another life, I was a cat.

While I do like attention from a partner, I don't really care for it otherwise or a constant need for conversation. I'm just not a huge fan of people in general. I'd rather not talk 90% of the time and others, such as coworkers, usually have a problem with that. So I put on a mask, a smile that hurts my cheeks, and deal with whatever small talk I have to. But I'd much rather be alone and unbothered as I love my peace and quiet. It's not like this all the time- a rare few know I adore moments of laughter and warm cuddles. At one point, I did know someone I could share a space with and sit comfortably in silence whenever- I was able to do my own thing and vibe while they did theirs, without judgement. Then we'd hit it off when we spoke. It was nice. Thus, I have come to the conclusion that i'd love to be a pet cat. If reincarnation is real, then hopefully that's what I am next. Purrrrr.

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u/Cinnamon_GirI — 5 days ago

I'm a single mom of one baby and have been looking into courses I could take online as I work. Thought about different career paths and came across WGU. I'm interested in Accounting but I have no accounting experience or any other college degrees. Would it still be recommended I try this course? How possible would it be to land a job with this degree given my situation?

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u/Cinnamon_GirI — 6 days ago

I'm a 24 year old female who gave birth to my first child a couple of months ago. I had attended college when I was younger (Cybersecurity) but didn't take it as seriously, got into a horrible wreck and became severely depressed, dropped out. Having a child changed my perspective on life completely. I want to earn a degree that could land me a well paying job so I can build a stable foundation and get my life right for my little one. Any specific career or major I should consider pursuing?

I'm an indecisive person as well as a parent who won't have alot of time away from baby. Something I can take online would be great but isn't a must. I want to pick one thing and stick with it. An associates would be nice as i'd have something sooner, but i'm willing to grind for my bachelors.

Basically: I want to earn enough to eventually buy a home. I don't have to be rich, a salary that'll let me live comfortably is all I want. I'm not great with people. Or death. I'm fine with repetitive work, as well as anything hands-on and physical. I don't mind long shifts either. As long as i'm not completely out of my child's life. Aaaaand... preferably not be replaced by AI. Any input would be greatly appreciated.

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u/Cinnamon_GirI — 10 days ago