u/CindersAnd_ashes

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He's very overwhelmed, he says things like he doesn't want to be here anymore, he doesn't want to live (not sure if he was serious about this), he hates managing people, etc. I've been trying to help by taking tasks off his plate (he sometimes resists but I do end up helping so he doesn't have to worry as much) and also trying to be more compassionate rather than judgemental if he takes his frustration out on me or is rude. I also listen when he vents and try to cheer him up with humour or silliness but I'm not sure if that helps really.

What approach should I take to help him be less stressed? Thanks for any advice!

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u/CindersAnd_ashes — 9 days ago

Please, someone help, I am desperate. It's been 3 months. I've reduced her mite load to very little (according to a vet) but there is ALWAYS 1-4 mites... usually babies or juvenile, haven't seen an adult in a while. But I know they can reproduce asexually and if I miss one it will become a whole infestation again.

I feel so depressed watching my bluey suffer in an enclosure all day with no substrate, and her appetite isn't good, I just want the mites gone ASAP so she can go back to normal.

So far I've been applying frontline every 7 days on her and spraying the enclosure every 2 days with this which the vet prescribed:

https://preview.redd.it/isxtub48g4yg1.jpg?width=993&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7c3281b9f7c55bfb5709b29f7b0fc57b3863a16e

https://preview.redd.it/ewvh9g48g4yg1.jpg?width=1736&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=756466688bf483669c5488c5a7fffe822da8ce9c

Any advice HEAVILY appreciated

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u/CindersAnd_ashes — 15 days ago