u/CiceroOnEnds

We had to replace our septic system from 1951 with a new system - regulations for a nitrogen reducing system. So they crushed our old cement one in place and installed the new nitrogen reducing system with new drain field.

Now there’s a faint lingering stale poop smell around where the system is. It’s not all the time or in your face - it’s like you walked into a space someone just farted. What makes it an issue, it’s right next to our ac unit…so I think there’s some old septic farts that are coming in when our ac kick on.

Is this normal for there to be stale poop smell from a replaced septic system? Is there anything I can do? And no, I will not blame the fart smell on the dog.

When my husband and I go to the gym in the morning, we get up at 5:30am, get ready and then leave. Last night we agreed to go to the gym this morning, I set my alarm and we went to bed.

I woke up this morning at 5:30 to him gone. Checked his location, he’s at the gym, check the cameras he left at 5:28am. I half asleep heard up him and the door close - it didn’t really register that he was leaving cause I was still half asleep.

We live around black bears, so I don’t like walking to the gym in the morning. But I was up and going to go, so I got ready to walk to the gym around 5:50 and he came home from the gym. I sent him a message when I figured out where he was asking wtf.

He said he tried to wake me up cause he didn’t sleep well and was up earlier. I’m not that hard to wake up, so I don’t think he really tried. He half ass apologized, said he fucked up, and offered to go back to the gym - I snapped you’ve already been and left. I’m seriously mad at him right now, he knows I need to go to the gym to help my blood sugar, we always get up at 5:30am, and he’s woken me up before for the gym. I just don’t understand what when through his head - how mad would you be or am I over reacting?

Has anyone ever used a ADHD home organizer in Orlando? And any recommendations for one? My partner is ADHD and I struggle trying to organize and keep it organized - kind of hoping a neutral 3rd party can help them.

I want to make a monarch butterfly waystation (https://www.monarchwatch.org/waystations/#register) garden in central Florida zone 9a. I have the milkweed covered, but have too many choices for nectar plants - I’m going to do a 10x10 spot in my front yard that gets full sun. I have a hibiscus, and canna lilies for the area - what have you found in your garden that butterfly love that are easy to grow?