u/ChocoSaucey

For context, I ( 24 F ) have been with my partner (23M) for a quite some time. I am so very attracted to him, and it's not him that's the issue here.

I know how to please myself, and can reach that stage pretty easily. But when my partner goes down on me, I have a mental block that tells me I'm going to look absolutely stupid finishing and practically flopping about like a fish. When I finish it's not very subtle, and to ME it's kind of mortifying to be seen like that and I just can't get to that point with him. God, I want to so bad, and maybe I could if my brain would shut up.

So question here is, men/women.. Do yall care about that or do yall like that?