I have heard that aftercare is an essential to actually being a good boyfriend, what should I do for aftercare? What should I have ready? How should I act afterwards? Should I be more attentive? Or should I make her something to eat? Or get a drink? How should I go about it all? This is probamy biggest question regarding SexEd
Me and my girlfriend won't turn 18 for a while, but that'll be in less than a year. I don't want to rush into anything, in fact, she is probably going to initiate it in the first place. But I am not sure how long the actual sex part should last, basically how long should I myself last. And I don't know how long would be a size that isn't, to be frank, disappointing. It'll be both of our first times and I don't want to make it anything less than a beautiful and memorable experience for her
Me and my girlfriend aren't ready to actually do it yet, but she's mentioned it before, and just personality wise she is certainly going to be the one to initiate it un the first place. But I want to be as prepared as possible for that day. Neither of us have any experience at all so I have no idea what to do. From what I have read here it seems that "going down" on her may make her enjoy it more overall, and I was wondering if it should be just that or a mix of that and using my hands? I saw that it could take anywhere from 5 to 30+ minutes to take effect, so if it takes long will it be boring or anything for her if I just stick to "eating", so to speak, before we actually begin anything further such as actual penetration. All I want is to ensure that she has the best time that I am able to give her, I would appreciate any and all advice