So I (F28) made a now deleted post on here about a guy (M29) that I’ve been talking to since late December. Basically I live somewhere pretty seasonal, he came for a month in February to essentially just fish/explore since he works remote, and we went on about four great dates prior to him leaving (we had sex on the second to last one). He said he thought I was beautiful, smart, etc. and wanted me to visit him, and I did and that’s what this is about lol. We’ve also been talking quite literally every single day since we started! I just got back from visiting him and I’m a bit… not sure what the word is.
He was great, wanted to pay for my flight which I just wasn’t super comfortable with yet, so he kindly paid for the meals there and we did a lot of sightseeing, etc. since he lives in a very ‘scenic(?)’ state/area. Our conversations flowed great, sex amazing, and it felt incredibly natural since we’ve been talking for quite awhile at this point. I’d say I noticed a few times that when I talked about him coming to visit or we can do xyz next time, he wouldn’t add to it or just kind of laugh it off. I sort of realized this the last day which kind of threw me for a loop, but then he made a ‘next time’ comment and it eased my mind a bit. I’m incredibly introverted and so I’d like to think after yrs of being a listener/observing above anything else - that I’m pretty cognizant/can read situations pretty well! Maybe I was off on this one.
I was there for four days and my last morning there, he dropped me off at the airport, we kissed, and he said he’d miss me; everything seemed ok! Flying there he wanted updates since I had a long trip w/connecting flights and once again, we’ve been talking every single day so I mentioned I got home safely/thanked him for everything. He responded hrs later (not a total red flag bc he’s super into hunting and it’s turkey season lol so this can be the norm for him) with a short “glad you got home safe!” text. I responded with a joke last night about how the trip - especially last night went well, so it gave me the extra endorphins to muster through or something like that. No response at all. I’d like to think he just might need a little time to readjust since he took off Friday and I was in his space; we’re both introverts so I could see that. I just don’t really know! Anything with distance is new to me and I don’t want to raise a flag of concern so quickly after getting back, but I am uneasy for sure. Any advice or thoughts are welcome!!