After a very long time, I can finally say I’m in a place where I feel genuinely happy, settled, and able to breathe again.
I’ve stayed quiet for years about a situation that affected me deeply. I’m still not comfortable sharing details publicly, so I’m going to remain intentionally vague, but I think it’s important for me to finally say something after today’s verdict, for my own peace of mind.
Being targeted, spoken about, and constantly dragged into negativity by people who didn’t truly know me had a huge impact on my mental health at the time. There were moments I felt anxious, isolated, and honestly quite frightened by how intense things became behind the scenes.
One person I do want to thank is Pharaoh. They knew how much I was struggling during some really dark moments and showed me kindness when I needed it most. Out of everything that happened, I’m grateful that it led to a genuine friendship that I hope lasts for a very long time.
What’s funny is that while certain people were investing their energy into tearing others down online, I was quietly building a life and career for myself. I work in a highly demanding profession that I’m incredibly proud of, and I’ve earned respect there through hard work and perseverance - something no amount of online gossip, harassment or threats could ever take away from me.
I also want to make this crystal clear: I have never written hateful comments on Tattle Life and never would. No matter how many assumptions or rumours get repeated online, that has never been me.
I think with time you eventually realise not everybody deserves access to your story, your energy, or your peace. I’m no longer interested in defending myself to people committed to misunderstanding me.
I’m focused on moving forward now, surrounding myself with good people, protecting my peace, and finally allowing myself to be happy again.